Dating when sober
Our conversations revolved around meaningful issues, which created a deeper connection.These smart, emotionally developed women started showing up in my life.The other day, a single friend of mine lamented the fact that the guy she had a crush on was sober.“What’s wrong with sober men? She turned bright red, obviously forgetting that my husband hasn’t had a drink or taken a drug in over twenty years.She laughed and apologized, but she didn’t need to.
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I'd had enough embarrassing nights out; I'd woken up beside more than my fair share of unattractive strangers, and was, in turn, more than ready to bid farewell to the drunken rants, crying jags and battles with lovers, friends, cab drivers, cashiers and waiters.
I also thrilled at the notion of never having another hangover.
Like most people, I'd meet women in a bar for a drink, or we’d order wine with dinner. At that point, we'll stop evaluating each other so acutely and start to flirt, increasing the likelihood of a first kiss (or something else).
Until that point, my dates had always revolved around alcohol. It might take us a few drinks before the conversation finally starts to flow.
And even during that first month, I started to notice a shift in my dating life.